• Want to enjoy your sex life more?
• Struggle to Orgasm or low libido?
"Before listening I have needed alcohol to allow myself to relax during sex but now I have a new sexual confidence which feels natural when I am sober." Natasha, London
Turn the volume down low and let the messages wash over you, listen at bedtime or another time of day in safe place whilst sitting or lying down. Never let the driver of a car listen whilst driving.
90 days money back guarantee is offered on this download. I am confident that any Woman will find this hypnosis track helps them to feel comfortable in themselves and enjoy sex more than they thought possible before.
How does the 'Comfortable Sex for Women' hypnosis download work?
Your beliefs are stored in your subconscious mind, some of which are positive others are more negative. During this relaxation hypnosis download your mind will be able to safely get your sexual beliefs back into balance. By releasing emotions, physical strain, stress and past experiences you can create a new positive foundation on a deeper level. It make sense that there will have been things at some point that will have got in the way of you enjoying sex fully. This hypnosis track will re-set your thinking. You will only make changes which are positive for you. Press the play button, lie back and relax as you take back control.
"I have worked with many Women over the years who have struggled with their sex lives for various reasons. A Woman can encounter all sorts of events which may interrupt the flow of making love such as difficult periods, menopause changes, hormone issues, childbirth, doctor examination, a pregnancy termination, bladder or other infections, a sexual assault or rape, an embarrassing or uncomfortable sexual experience, vaginismus / vaginism, fertility issues, IVF treatments, a demanding partner or a partner with little sexual interest in you, negative body comments from a partner, a betrayal, failure to orgasm, faking orgasms, unrealistic porn pressure, breast or ovarian cancer, health issues, tiredness, a miscarriage, weight or body confidence issues and the strain of everyday life. Many of my clients have used alcohol as a tranquilliser so they can feel sexually liberated or to help them do sexual things they wouldn't normally feel comfortable doing. Men don't have the same physical demands put upon their bodies. It is understandable that sometimes Women feel sex is not all it is cracked up to be. This recording will heal your past and help you to feel totally confident with yourself so you can truly enjoy sex in the most amazing way. This hypnosis download recording is for everyone Woman who wants to take their sexual enjoyment onto the next level."
Best wishes Ailsa
One Track – 16 minutes
Begin to make changes by pressing the play button.
'Let go of Health Worries', 'Release Fear of Rejection' and 'Build Confidence and Self-Esteem' to help you feel at ease within yourself
Try reading my book 'Cut the Crap and Feel Amazing' (hardcover or e-book) which has useful techniques to get your whole life into balance.
Over the years working with many clients I have found sexual issues crop up. Hypnotherapy helps to release all the old experiences which may be holding someone back from having an enjoyable sex life. Just as work stress may build so does relationship stress mount up too and past sexual experiences stack up in your subconscious mind. As we are emotional beings this can get in the way of sharing intimate time with your partner.
Sexual issues vary greatly some people may feel they don't have enough sex or attention from their partner whilst others feel there is too much pressure. Getting the balance right can be tricky with differing expectations and busy lives all getting in the way. My comfortable sex recording is designed to eliminate all the questions which clutter up the mind such as why don't I want to be intimate with my boyfriend anymore? Why does my husband constantly wants sex? Why won't my boyfriend sleep with me anymore? Why is my girlfriend never in the mood? How often do couples make love? Why is my husband too sexually demanding? Can I ever orgasm? My husband uses me sexually what can I do? I don't want my husband to touch me anymore is this normal? Why don't I want to have sex anymore is our relationship over? All this negative chatter in your mind is actually making the situation worse as you are programming yourself with more of what you don't want. What is needed is to get back to your natural instinctive sexual self so you can be intimate without over thinking the situation.
I believe everyone can improve the way they feel about sex and their sexual enjoyment by releasing the past limiting thoughts and experience. Every physical touch stores in your body and mind, some life events may have impacted on your feelings such as having cervical smear tests, using tampons, childbirth, a comment made by a partner or a change of hormones during menopause. All these things can interfere with a woman's flow of sexual pleasure. Unlike a mans body which goes through life with little change a womans body is constantly going through changes such as monthly cycles she may not always being feeling in the mood if sex becomes a constant pressure. The recordings will help sort out the past clutter in your mind so you can flow .
What can a man do to help?
Firstly by understanding what your wife or girlfriend has gone through with her body may help you to see where some of the issues are coming from. Has she had a baby recently? Does she have painful periods which means she needs a couple of days to get over this before she may want sex again? Did she have a smear test earlier today? Has she had a bladder infection recently? Is she stressed about a family issue or work problems? Everything impacts on whether a Woman is in the mood for sex.
Also understanding that women are not machines which can be turned on and off. Sex is like the cherry on the cake but the cherry needs to sit on top of a good cake which has had some effort to weigh the ingredients, mix and bake it before you can put the cherry on the top. In the same way your relationship needs to be worked each day so you can connect with each other to have the sex.
How to make your wife want to make love to you
Forget everything you have learnt about sex. Start to get into the feeling of what makes your wife happy in everyday life. Every woman is different so what works for one won't work someone else. Let go of comparing your sex life to anyone else instead focus on finding what works for you both as a couple. It is common for people to wonder how often should couples make love but the answer is it will vary throughout every phase of any couples life. Being flexible about what is the correct amount of sex will help. Try to be affectionate. She may reject you initially as she needs to learn to trust that you are not just after sex when you give her attention. Arrange time together, listen to her and begin to understand what makes her tick.
My wife doesn't want me to touch her anymore.
She may associate you touching her as you wanting something from her. Try having lots of small contact at varying points throughout the day such as putting your hand on her shoulder, holding her hand, snuggling up close on the sofa. Once she gets used to you be around her without demanding sex she may become more open to your advances of intimacy. Play romantic music to her at bedtime. This will relax her which will make her more open to being intimate. Don't expect miracles overnight these suggestion need to become a way of everyday life for them to work.
What to do when your wife won't sleep with you anymore
Look at what you can improve in your lives and your relationship. Being practical to change habits and routines in your everyday life can make a real difference to improving a sex life. Get on top of work, family and parenting stress by changing the way you function and communicate as a household. Learn to manage work stress. Make changes to become more healthy such as reducing alcohol, exercising and eating healthily. When a woman starts shutting down sexually it can often be the build of problems in everyday life which is causing it.
My husband wants sex all the time
Women can feel that a partner wants sex all the time and that their husband or boyfriend is never happy. When people feel that they can never keep up with someone elses expectations as they are unrealistic it is easy to give up. Imagine you work hard at work to please your boss and the next day you get into work to find another mound of paperwork to be done. The demand from you never lets up. In the end you begin to dread going into work. The same happens when a husband or boyfriend makes sex a daily chore which is never ending. The wife or girlfriend can end up feeling it's easier to give up because you are never happy. A successful marriage will work because there is a balance and compromise on both sides, meeting somewhere in the middle is essential to having a happy sex life. Stop saying ' We never have sex' as this can be an exaggeration. Instead say 'I really enjoyed the sex we had, thank you. I love having sex with you. You are gorgeous.' Appreciate your wife or girlfriend every time you make love.
Backing track on the CD is by Danny De Matos www.shushstudios.com
Comfortable Sex for Women download
"Before I listened to the hypnosis recording for sex I was thinking I don't enjoy sex what can I do. But now I am having the best sex with a new confidence which my husband loves too. I feel more in control of my feelings but at the same time I have an inner freedom. The hypnosis MP3 download is relaxing. Painful sex is something I can't even believe was a problem for me, it is so far behind me now." Melanie, Surrey
"Before my wife listened to the Comfortable sex for Women recording she found sex a like a household chore. She wasn't interested as much as me. She was too tired and sex was never a priority. She found excuses why it was not the right time. It was always hard to coax her into making love. She felt I was taking her time she would rather spend doing something else. After she listened to the recordings It is great as she comes to me for sex. She is responsive and creative. She tells me what she likes and doesn't like. She has more confidence. Our relationship has got more close. Sex is flowing and natural." Husband of Chloe, London
"Before listening, I don't trust him to touch me nicely. My husband pesters me for sex which turns me off. He watches porn then expects me to pleasure him after I have climaxed which is exhausting and makes sex a real burden. But the changes I have noticed since listening to the hypnosis download is I am feeling very connected to my partner in a way which is more romantic rather than feeling the emptiness which porn had brought our relationship." Jane, Wiltshire
"After listening to the hypnosis download for enjoyable sex I have found myself feeling an inner glow, a completeness that didn't realise was possible." Joanne, Berkshire
"I feel at one with myself, my body, my partner and my sex life. My partner has been much more engaging with me in general everyday life which has brought us physically closer. The shift has happened in me which has changed him as well funnily enough. Before I would think the only time my partner comes near me he wants sex." Emma, London
"I had an aversion to sex due to difficulty at being aroused, low libido, inability to achieve an orgasm and sometimes painful sex. I would describe it in a nutshell as 'I don't like sex'. But after listening to the hypnosis download I was surprised at how I began to change. I was struggling to cope with the sexual demands of my husband and I would hear myself say 'why don't I like to be touched' but after listening I began to try different positions which were more comfortable and enjoyable, I made advances towards my husband and I began to experience a new enjoyment which I can only describe as an awakening." Lisa, Kent
"My husband wants sex every night Islam gives him this right so he tells me. I had been very nervous as a virgin to have sex for the first time. When I first got married I wanted to tell him 'You don't smell good, you are boring and you don't help with the housework but the recording has settled all my past fears and stresses. Now I have gone from being a wife not interested in intimacy to someone who looks forward to being close." Maisha, Berks
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Can I download the recordings to an Android phone such as Samsung or a tablet?
Yes, click on the download link next to each track on the order email. This will save the mp3 download directly to your android phone or tablet.
Can I download the recordings to my iPhone or iPad?
You can save the download tracks to your computer and then drag the recordings to your itunes OR if this is too complicated for you we can arrange for your recordings to be put into a free app called Dropbox. It is much easier than you think. After purchase simply follow the instructions provided. Our customer care team will be happy to help.
Can I put the download recordings on more than one device such as my Samsung phone and my iPad?
Just purchase the titles you want then save them on to as many devices as required by following the instructions for each device. Instructions will arrive with your order. For further help contact our customer care team.
How will I receive the download?
Your order will be sent to the email address which you provide at the time of ordering.
I didn't receive my download?
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Simply contact our support team through the contact page so they can arrange for your order to be re-sent to you.
I lost the download.
No problems send us your order details or your full name so we can resend you the tracks. It is common for people to lose their downloads when their computer crashes or they lose their phone.
The download doesn't play all the way through; it stops after a few minutes?
If your download stops it is because you have an iPhone or iPad and you are playing the recording from the order email. Apple have restrictions so to get around this you need to first save each track to your computer before playing them and then drag the recordings to your iTunes OR if this is too complicated for you we can arrange for your recordings to be put into a free app called Dropbox. It is much easier than you think. After purchase simply follow the instructions provided on your order email. Our customer care team will be happy to help.
What is the difference between the 'Take Control of Alcohol' and 'Stop Binge Drinking' recordings?
Take Control of Alcohol is to break the habit of everyday or regular drinking.
Stop Binge Drinking is for people who don't drink very regularly but when they do have a drink they drink huge volumes finding it difficult to stop.
Start with the recording which describes your drinking best.
Some people buy both recordings to cover all types of drinking as they associate with the two titles.
How long do I need to listen to the recordings?
Try to listen to the recordings everyday for 3 weeks. You can alternate the tracks on different days. After this listen a few times per week until you make all the changes you want to make. You can listen again later for a top up at anytime in the future or for relaxation. Repetition of listening is important.
How soon will I see results?
Some people begin to see changes within a day or a few days whilst other people see results within a few weeks. You may begin to notice you sleep better, you are more relaxed, your habits are changing and you are thinking less about the problems. Gradually you will make different choices as the new habits establish and you will begin to feel better in yourself.
When should I listen to the recordings?
Most people listen at bedtime. You can put the volume down low, let the messages wash over you and just fall asleep. Other people like to do a short track in the morning or after work on the sofa. As long as you are in a safe place find the time which suits you best.
How is it best to listen to the hypnotherapy recordings?
Turn the volume down low and let the messages wash over you. You don't need to hear all the words or keep up with the information or analyse the content instead just lay back and relax. The words will filter into your subconscious mind for you to make safe changes which you are ready for. Listen daily or regularly for 3 weeks or until you have made all the changes you want to make. Most people rest on the bed or on a sofa.
Can I listen to more than one recording title at the same time?
You can listen to more than one title but it is usually best to focus on one and then gradually introduce another title. Once you have listened to each topic for a focussed period of time you can then dip in and out of any of the recordings to keep yourself relaxed and on top of things.
What is the difference between the hypnotherapy recordings and having a one to one hypnotherapy session?
The recordings are very cost effective. They are designed to cover as much as possible and they are complete programmes. But a one to one phone appointment will deal with more specific issues related to you personally. One to one sessions are more expensive but get directly to the root of the problems although tens of thousands of people have successfully made all the changes they want by listening to the recordings. There is no right or wrong but instead do what suits you and your budget best.
- Some people make all the changes with the recordings.
- Some people start with the recordings and then have sessions later to tackle specific problems.
- Some people only have one to one phone sessions because they want to sort out a combination of issues specific to them.
- Some people start with one to one phone sessions and then go on to use the recordings later for relaxation to keep balanced.
- Ailsa's goal is to provide affordable solutions to help everyone improve their lives.
Does hypnotherapy work for everyone?
Most people are sceptical as to whether the hypnotherapy will work for them. Many people desperately need it to help them so they can be scared that it might not. People are generally surprised at how effective and enjoyable the hypnotherapy is. It is rare for hypnotherapy not to work. Ailsa Frank gives a 90 day money back guarantee on recordings to give you the confidence to give the hypnosis downloads a try.
Do I need to buy the book Cut the Crap and Feel Amazing?
The book Cut the Crap and Feel Amazing is a great tool to assist you in your life generally but is separate to the hypnosis downloads and recordings. The book is based on the work which Ailsa Frank does with clients. It is easy to read with chapter summaries, enjoyable techniques and her great guidance to help you improve your life. It is written in a way which moves your mind on from problems as you read it. The beginning chapters cover getting into the 'Amazing Zone', letting go of worries/stresses, making new choices and being motivated. Then following chapters go on to cover all life issues such as money, relationships, parenting, health, heartaches and loss. Following the success since being published in the UK in 2015 it is now being published in foreign languages around the world.
How does the money back guarantee work?
If you are not happy with a recording for any reason we will give you a refund. Just contact us through the website contact page providing your name and order details, ask for a refund. We pride ourselves on customer care to help you have peace of mind. We have sold tens of thousands of recordings but are only asked for refunds very occasionally.
There is no CD option on some of the recordings in the web shop?
Due to the increase in demand for downloads we don't always produce every title in a CD form. However we are happy to burn a CD for you and pop it in the post. Just place the order as a download then contact our customer care by replying to the order email and request for a CD version to be posted OR Our customer care team will help you make sure you can get the download on to your phone. Many people think they need a CD but after contacting our customer care team they are helped to successfully get a download on their phone or computer.
Should I buy a download or a CD, what is the difference?
A download is a file of the recording which will be emailed to you after you order it. You will receive this almost instantly after purchasing. You can save the file then listen to the recording from your computer or phone. A CD is the same recording but in a CD form which will be posted first class daily from our shipping depot. You should receive this within a few days in the UK or outside the UK it can take up to several weeks depending on the country of destination. All CD's are posted free worldwide. If you want help with a download please let us know.
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